As part of my overall plan to get healthy, I have begun to limit myself to one coffee a day. Relying on coffee or in my case mocha (coffee and hot chocolate mix) to get me through the day/night was very detrimental. It is high calories, eases my thirst which keeps me from drinking nutritive/beneficial alternatives and just leaves me needing another one in an hour or so. The roller coaster of the sugar and caffeine highs leaves my body constantly craving more.
Yesterday morning, after leaving work, I went home with the best of intentions, I was going to have just a little snack before sleeping to keep my blood sugar even, but once I started it was like I couldn't stop. My mind, my body, my entire being was crying out for sleep but I just NEEDED to have more. Since this was technically my "supper" for the day, I had a limited number of calories I could use - about 1000 - which I blew through pretty quickly with some Eggo Cinnamon Waffles. If I had just eaten a regular portion and then some protein I would have been fine. If I had just chosen something completely different - something healthier I would at least have had the satisfaction that is was good for me. If I had just walked away and gone to bed after the first portion I would have been fine. But I didn't, I went back for more, and then more.
Later, when the guilt wouldn't let me sleep(starting the cycle all over again), I tried working through the Ws in my head.
- Why did I do it?
- What did I think it was going to accomplish?
- Which need was I really fulfilling?
- When did I stop eating to assuage my hunger/energy and begin to eat for comfort?
- Why didn't I stop myself?
- When was I going to get control over this?
I never did get answers to all of the questions, but I haven't stopped trying. In order to bust out of this pattern, I need to come to grips with why I do it. This morning after work, my plan is a small bowl of cereal, some yoghurt and fruit. The I am going to settle in and start listening to the food and inner change tracks. I haven't gotten to them yet - avoidance is another issue I deal with!
I am hesitant to deal with the bigger issues that hide behind the weight, to take it all out of hiding, brush it off and take a good hard look at it all. When I am honest with myself, that is why the use of the hypnosis tracks has stalled.
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