Food + Family = Love?

I am not sure about you, but as a child and even now with my extended family, food is the centrepiece of all our gatherings.  We don't come together for game night, or head out to watch a football game.  We get together for dinners, brunches, dessert, celebration luncheons etc.  The same has happened to my immediate family.  When my husband and I actually find time to have a date night, we go out for supper.  If I have a mommy and son or daughter date day, it almost always involves a restaurant.

Like this past weekend, I had a date with my 13 year old to see Hunger Games.  We started out by having lunch, then went to the movie where we got pop and popcorn.

A couple of weekends ago it was my husband's 50th birthday.  I planned a nice evening out at a "fancy" restaurant - the portions were huge - but FABULOUS!  We ate every bite.  The next morning we were invited out to a special birthday brunch - again, lots of food!  Add to that the requisite family birthday supper -  roast beef, roasted vegetables, potatoes, wine, cake, ice cream etc.  I spent the entire weekend eating!

Another example - in Ontario we have such a thing as Family Day.  It is the third Monday in February.  I woke up to this surprise breakfast buffet my daughters made for us.  Keep in mind, there was also supposed to be waffles and crepes, but they didn't turn out.  Look at the amount of food for 7 of us to eat!

My daughters have begun the habit of food for every celebration - surprise birthday breakfasts, "picnics" in front of the TV for New Years, hockey finals, favourite movies etc.

For us, food and togetherness does equal love, so how do I change that perception?  Is it something that has to stop all together or is it something that needs to be tweaked to better meet the health requirements of our family?  How do I change the emphasis on food as the focal point?  Any suggestions?

I assume that the MP3 track called "FOOD" might address some of this issue as I understand it is about dealing with your relationship with food.  So I guess I know which track I will be listening to next!